Ever wondered what’s that most important thing men want in relationships? I am sure, you have felt attracted to a guy without knowing why..
You might also have feelings for someone you’d rather not be attracted to. Do you know why does this happen?
How can you fall in love even though your conscious mind resists it?
Confused? The truth is, we can’t really chose to fall in love!! It’s more like getting thirsty and you can’t choose to get thirsty.
You just feel it. Hence. The stronger the thirst, the harder it becomes.
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What if I told you all men have a “thirst” for relationship? And he can’t really quench this thirst all alone. Would you like to know what what this insatiable thirst does he have?
You’ll know how you can trigger his thirst for something he desperately craves. Plus, I’ll ensure you that you are the ONLY person he depends on to satisfy this powerful thirst.
Here’s why the man in your life can’t tell you what he craves most from his relationship with you…
Honestly, He’s embarrassed to admit the truth. Simply, because admitting to this desire actually drives him farther away from the goal. Here’s why…
Okay, imagine yourself feeling feels frustrated that your man never does anything romantic.
You finally break down and explain your desire to feel romanced and pursued by him.
But he acts like you’re being unreasonable and demanding you name one thing that’s missing from your relationship.
So you tell him… “It would be nice to take me to a romantic outing, once in a while. Just simple things like that.”
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The next day, he books a little detour of the city and books a romantic dinner for you.
But, the magic of this gesture is disappeared. It doesn’t have the same charm and passion going for a romantic dinner when you had to ask for it.
It’s exactly the same with men, only with a completely different sort of relationship desire. You see, men have an insatiable thirst for your admiration.
Obviously, he can’t ask for it. He can’t say, “Kate, I really like you, but here’s what’s missing in our relationship. I don’t think admire me enough. I feel that you have greater admiration for other men in your life, and that makes it difficult for me to imagine a future with you.”
Do you think he can say that? He can’t, because men believe they have to earn admiration. Asking for it is like validating his worth as a lovable and desirable person. It doesn’t work like that.
He will only feel like your hero when you speak the non-verbal language of admiration.
He has to read it between the lines of what you actually say and do.
Now, you must be thinking, “That’s not so bad. I can understand why a man craves admiration.” But if you’re thinking that, there’s something important you need to know.
It’s not just that men crave admiration. It’s that he can’t sustain that “in love” feeling without it.
Nothing diminishes a man’s love and attraction faster than a relationship with no admiration and the feeling of being unwanted.
He wants to see himself as a provider. Someone who is admired because of his ability to provide.
You see, he feels emasculated if he doesn’t feel needed. More like less of a man;. And that turns off his romantic drive.
And the worst part? You can’t just give him admiration. It only works if he believes he has earned your trust, admiration, and respect.
But here’s the good news. It’s both fun and easy to let him earn your admiration once you know how to set him up for success.
But I’ve seen women wrap a man around her pinky using this simple concept. As a relationship coach, I have seen what works and what doesn’t. But what it all comes down to is this…
Stroke his ego and trigger his hero instinct.
You’ll be astonished by what happens next if you can accomplish that..
He’ll become so loving, so attentive, so much more interested in a committed, long-term relationship, that you will never want things to go back to the way they were.
It’s a subconscious drive to gravitate toward people who make him feel like a hero. But it’s amplified in his romantic relationships.
Because triggering his hero instinct is one thing.
Learning how to do it over and over again requires a few tips and tricks.
The fact is, women don’t need someone to rescue them. Especially in this day and age. Yet here’s the ironic truth…
In fact, men do still need someone to rescue. It’s built into their DNA to seek out relationships that allow them to feel like a provider.
This one small difference in male and female dynamics creates a BIG difference in male attraction towards opposite sex.
He feels drawn to any woman who allows him to become a hero of her life. His psychological instincts naturally drive him to thirst for that social role.
Here’s the really cool thing about this. He won’t even know why he feels so drawn to you.
Which is why you can use this method under the radar. It triggers attraction at a subconscious level.
He’ll feel the undeniable pull on his emotions. But if his friends ask him, why is he so crazy about you? He won’t have any words to describe it.
You have the power now to see the hidden world driving our feelings of attraction. Something you can actually control.
It’s something you can see all around you once you learn to spot it.
It’s a pattern of interaction between men and women. Something relationship experts have always known to exist, but something they failed to recognise as the powerful trigger it is.
A trigger that drives his thirst for companionship.
How do you use this trigger to build passion and romance?
Well, the easiest way to trigger his hero instinct is to translate your desires into a language that speaks to his natural drive to be a provider.
His desire to serve, love, and protect. The desire to be someone’s hero.
You already have needs and desires. Why not learn how to translate those desires into requests that trigger his hero instinct?
Then relax into the warmth and passion he is only capable of showing once a woman has triggered his hero instinct. A woman who knows exactly how to satisfy his thirst.